TRUE FORGIVENESS CAPTIVATES THE EVIL WITH LOVE

We are in the Twenty-fourth Sunday of ordinary time. The readings of today bid us to reflect on the theme: forgiveness.

God loves everyone in this world. We all pray to God for our protection and wellbeing. God takes responsibility for our life, as He is the giver of life. He wants all of us to live well and be protected from any evil. In the second reading – taken from letter to romans – St. Paul tells, “whether we live or die, we are for the Lord” (Rom 14:8). Our sole purpose of living and dying is for the Lord. Therefore, our business is only with the Lord.

As we ask the Lord for our wellbeing and goodness, God also asks us to do only one thing: do no harm to the other. When we harm the other, we are disturbing the peaceful life and goodness of that person to whom also God has promised protection. Thus, by refraining from doing evil to the other we are ensuring God’s protection for that person. We become co-workers and partner in God’s activity of protecting. God protects the other with my help and also protects me with the co-operation of the other with Him. Thus, all of us become co-workers in God’s activity.

The parable in the Gospel (Mt 18:21-35) shows that the Master will be compassionate toward the servant, if only that servant exhibits compassion toward his/her fellow servants. All our life owes to God who ensures wellbeing, goodness and protection, if only we exhibit the same toward our fellow human beings, because God of oneself is also the God of the other. When we focus all our living towards God and His teaching we cannot but refrain from harming the other. When every activity of our life is centred on God we are oriented to do only good.

The reality in which we are living today is filled with evil; one harms the other without realising one’s own vulnerability of being harmed by the other. In this context, many seem to prefer ‘tit for tat’ as the possible solution. But that is only an immediate solution for limited period of time, it cannot solve the problem once and for all. Forgiveness is the best tool which can end the evil from multiplying. True forgiveness that proceeds from the heart of man captivates the evil that the other has done to him/her with love. In this act of forgiveness, the love embraces the evil and transforms it to be good.

  The covid-19 pandemic has not only kept us in distance from one another but also showed us our interdependence. The sick person needs the doctor, the hungry needs the food keeper, the government needs the co-operation of its citizens… at last and not the least it is not only the farmer rather all of us are in need of natural resources. We need fresh air to breathe, good water to drink and good soil to produce. In this way all our lives are connected. To ensure this connectivity, we need to practice forgiveness. In this vast area of connectivity and interdependency it is possible for some to create rupture and spoil the soup. It that situation ‘tit for tat’ will only aggravate the situation from bad to worse, rather the unleashing of forgiveness will mend that rupture and ensure the connectivity and interdependency. Let us focus our life only on God and live accordingly. In this way of living we cannot but practice forgiveness.   

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